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Things Fall Apart

September 3, 2014 By Janine 20 Comments

Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold; Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world, The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere The ceremony of innocence is drowned; W B Yeats Grief is a tumultuous rollercoaster ride. I've always hated rollercoasters. The wind is blowing a gale force this morning which does nothing to help our … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grief

Going Out On A School Night

August 28, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Last week I was given two free tickets to see Kate Miller Heidke. Of course when you have TWO children into music this becomes a choice of epic "pick the favourite" proportions. I decide the child doing music for the HSC and having singing lessons should be the one who got to go. However, when I asked her she sadly informed me she had an Ancient … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Homework

Sadness Continues

August 25, 2014 By Janine 6 Comments

Dear Simon I need you to do something. Our friend Alex joined you yesterday. You need to find him and make sure he's OK. He'll be a little confused, given he's an atheist and all, so the whole heaven thing might be a bit of a shock for him. For the purpose of these letters I assume you are in heaven. (Although you did always have poor sense … [Read more...]

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I Haven’t Quite Finished Talking Yet

August 14, 2014 By Janine 13 Comments

  Dear Simon, Has heaven gotten a little funnier this week? Robin Williams left us, so if you run into him say hi. I wonder if famous people get to mix with ordinary folk once they get to heaven? These are the questions I ponder now. I had another dream. This time you were mucking around with the kids in the lounge room. Then for some … [Read more...]

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It’s Just A Game!

August 9, 2014 By Janine 6 Comments

Can someone explain to me why, when my daughter is perfectly legal to drive herself to the 8.40pm soccer game on a Friday night, I still insist on going? Gen X helicopter parenting at its finest right there. Of course if I hadn't gone I would have missed the spectacle of two teenage boys doing a streak across the field. Poor guys, they went to … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Soccer

Just Keeping On Writing

August 6, 2014 By Janine 2 Comments

Dear Simon God I hate it when you are right. Remember Sudden Sun by Sonja Georgeson? The painting you loved so much when I when I was working at that PR Company/Art Gallery I bought it for you one Christmas? We've had it sitting against the wall for two years because it got water damaged during one of the moves. We disagreed on getting it … [Read more...]

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July Achievements

August 1, 2014 By Janine 11 Comments

Negotiated my way through Centrelink without killing anyone. Managed to work six days in a fortnight and even came up with a few good story ideas (always a bonus if you are responsible for creating an interesting radio program). Accepted that it just gets harder. Started (and am enjoying) the Blog With Pip course. Applied for a few … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life

My Top Five Gripes

July 29, 2014 By Janine 17 Comments

I'm in a mood, you'll just have to deal with it. The top five things annoying me right now (I could have done a hundred but I decided to spare you the complete list because I don't want to put you in a mood too). My bra shop is closing down. This is a catastrophe people. Being a big-breasted woman in a small-breasted world is DIFFICULT! This … [Read more...]

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Five Things I Found On Pinterest

July 28, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

I fell down the rabbit hole that is Pinterest recently. I'm supposedly on there to promote the blog but seem to spend all my time reposting pictures of outfits that I can neither fit into nor afford. However I discovered some mind blowing info while losing hours of my life. Look at this clever way to keep your zipper up. C'mon I can't be the … [Read more...]

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Taking Stock 001

July 23, 2014 By Janine 11 Comments

Making :  A mess (as usual) Cooking : Vegetable Soup. Drinking : Lots of coffee. Reading: Monica Lewinsky - Culture of Humiliation - Vanity Fair Wanting: Someone to invent a drive through supermarket. Looking: At my newly formed wrinkles. I gotta start taking care of my skin. Playing: Around with podcasting because I want to do more of that … [Read more...]

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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