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Friends – Old, New and Virtual – Part 1

June 2, 2014 By Janine 10 Comments

Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them but you know they are always there. During the past two months I have been held together by a stream of beautiful people, some are old friends, some are new and some are my virtual friends who I've never met. Within minutes of hearing the news my two oldest friends had booked plane … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: friendship, Grief

The Middle

March 17, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Nicole Kidman is middle-aged. Yep, I’ve said it. The woman is getting on. It comes as a shock doesn’t it? I know this because Nicole and I are the same age. At 46 we are at life’s midpoint. That’s providing we make it to 92, if we cark it earlier then we could right now be beyond the middle. Funnily enough Nicole Kidman’s middle-age looks … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Humour, Life

We Need To Talk About Kevin

March 12, 2014 By Janine 2 Comments

I don't know what it is about Kevin Bacon, he can still make my heart flutter. If you look carefully he's not really that handsome, not in the "pretty boy" way of many Hollywood actors.But he's always been one of my favourite stars. As an actor he's appeared in many a dark role - I tried to get into The Following but failed. But to me no matter … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: 80's, Kevin Bacon

This is what happens when you wander into the internet

February 25, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

So all I did was click on one little article from the Guardian about the Aussie anthem Throw Your Arms Around Me by Hunters and Collectors. It's on my "songs I want at my funeral" list. Of course I had to watch the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4H2Dl4bfySM#t=191 Which reminded me of the time the Doug Anthony All Stars did a version … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Good News Week, Paul McDermott, Spicks and Specks, Throw Your Arms Around Me

What’s On Your Ultimate Play List?

December 9, 2013 By Janine 4 Comments

Over at iVillage Alana is considering what she'd put on her ultimate playlist. Now I haven't managed to be organised/technical enough to sort out how to get myself a shuffling playlist - it's been on my to do list for some time now. The kids have banned me from adding my songs to their playlists so in this age of plentiful music generating … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life

I Seem To Have Misplaced My Career Plan

September 5, 2013 By Janine 16 Comments

When it comes to your career are you a planner? Do you have it all figured out step-by-step, promotion-by-promotion? It appears I've misplaced my career plan. There was a time when I had goals, hell even a bit of ambition. I worked full-time, studied at night, put my hand up for extra responsibilities, took job after job for the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Humour, Life Tagged With: competitions

Getting Some Perspective

August 27, 2013 By Janine 6 Comments

All right I'm getting some perspective on the world. That's what happens when I get some time on my hands, I ponder. Oh god do I ponder. But no, it's all good because overnight I have had some blinding moments of clarity about raising children, the world, politics and everything in between. Seriously, why nobody pays me for my insights is a giant … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life

Choices, Chances and Life’s Big Lottery

July 25, 2013 By Janine 11 Comments

It's hard work this helicopter mum thing. Seriously, all this hovering is EXHAUSTING. Those of you with young children who are just in the "keep 'em safe, don't let 'em do anything dangerous" stage of helicopter mothering, let me tell you when you get to the final years of high school it takes on a whole new level of demanding! Last night was … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Life Tagged With: ATAR, Education, HSC

Welcome to My Mid Life Crisis

July 7, 2013 By Janine 11 Comments

If you ever wondered what a mid life crisis looked like just follow me - I'm well and truly embroiled in one. I couldn't afford a sports car and I don't have the energy for an affair so I did the next best stupid thing - I quit my job. My very nice four-day-a-week, one week of the school holidays off, job. My boss was a lovely person (she … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life, Unemployed Diaries Tagged With: mid life crisis, unemployment

Under the Dome

June 26, 2013 By Janine 4 Comments

As a parent you have moments where, well you just lose your mind. At first it's excusable, little children take a lot of time and energy, you are operating on very little sleep, of course you can't be expected to retain your sanity. But then the kids get older, they are more self-sufficient and you would think you would have your wits about … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Humour, Life Tagged With: Stephen King, Under the Dome

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

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Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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