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Letter to the Husband

June 20, 2014 By Janine 10 Comments

Dear Simon, How's things with you? All harp music and fluffy clouds? Just a few things you've missed, the Blues won Origin, Ford has sacked 230 workers so manufacturing is in even more trouble, nobody likes the Lib's budget and Kim Kardashian got married.  Kardashian ... the reality TV ... oh never mind. I took a quiz tonight, the how will … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Grief

10 Things That Make Me Happy

June 17, 2014 By Janine 1 Comment

  What makes you happy? Here's some of mine. Fresh flowers. Funny comments from readers and friends on the blog and Facebook. My children's laughter. Good food. Chocolate. Books. Beautiful views. The company of good people. Hippie Child's singing. Princess Child's photography.   … [Read more...]

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Retreating

June 16, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

Another grief stricken blogger would by this stage be writing beautiful, raw, heartwarming posts. Instead you've got me. I've retreated to the bedroom, I'm FB'ing, watching You-Tube, and eating until late into late into the night. Simon's turning in his grave. Tonight's musical marathon is Springsteen. What's your … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Bruce Springsteen

Then I Saw A Pyschic

June 15, 2014 By Janine 5 Comments

I just googled the Kubler-Ross model of grief. I don't think I'm following the brief, either that or she missed a few stages. So far I'm almost through the paperwork stage, that's the time were you are buried under mounds of irrelevant and illogical forms required by faceless bureaucrats who have no hearts just "policies and procedures". Now … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Grief

A Bit of a Laugh and Some Interesting Reads

June 11, 2014 By Janine 1 Comment

Still going through the old photos ... what the hell was I thinking? These were shorts people! And top tucked in so nicely too. I think I wore this outfit a lot back in the day. Oh the horror. At the risk of becoming a one topic blog, here's what I've read today and found interesting. Parenting through Sadness by Kerrie Sackville. A duty … [Read more...]

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Checklist before Dying

June 10, 2014 By Janine 11 Comments

Turns out decisions are a key feature of dealing with the death of a loved one. Quite frankly, it's an endless stream of rapid fire questions, queries and instruction. When your brain has turned to mush and you are at your most vulnerable you are expected to come up with answers to questions you have never contemplated before. The funeral home … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Bottom Drawer Book, Grief

Advice for the Grieving and Their Friends

June 9, 2014 By Janine 7 Comments

When the worst happens and a loved one is lost everyone finds themselves swirling in a storm of emotions. When the person gone is young and the death unexpected everyone has to deal with their own personal shock and the feelings of fear it creates for their own life. There is no rulebook for how you should behave when it's your husband, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Grief

Memory Snapshots

June 7, 2014 By Janine 7 Comments

I've been going through the old photos a lot this week. I'm finding it very therapeutic to see the happiness, the fun times, the laughter and the love captured in one single click of the camera button. When I used to teach photo scrapbooking it always amazed me the incredible stories I would hear when people started talking about the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Life

Grateful

June 6, 2014 By Janine Leave a Comment

Trying to be grateful. Going all Oprah with my gratitude post. Grateful for the wonderful friends in my life, wherever you are. Grateful my kids are old enough to remember their Dad. Grateful for having a home, as unfinished as it may be. Grateful for the neighbour who mowed my lawn yesterday (yes Janice the lawn is under … [Read more...]

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Friends – The Old, The New, The Virtual – Part 2

June 3, 2014 By Janine 6 Comments

Life's truest happiness is found in the friendships we make along the way. We haven't lived in Port Macquarie long by regional standards, only a mere seven years, we're not even locals yet. However it is clear the friendships we have made in that time are really special. The relationships were forged at the school pick-up, on the wintry … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: friendship, Grief

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Janine Fitzpatrick is a personal blogger with an untidy house, imperfect children and no celebrity friends.

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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