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The Widow Goes On A Date

September 5, 2018 By Janine 11 Comments

Grey stairs.

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago people.   To be honest I've never been great at the dating game. On one of my first few dates … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grief, Humour, Life, Uncategorized

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

October 5, 2017 By Janine 2 Comments

chocolate and wine

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may be last night, when I found myself home alone for the evening. I ditched all responsibility,  … [Read more...]

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Taking Stock – May

May 28, 2017 By Janine Leave a Comment

field with trees

It's been a while since I've done this Taking Stock post but I always find it a fun exercise which comes from Pip at Meet Me at Mikes. Making: Plans for a better future. Cooking : Packet ham and cheese tortellini with store-bought sauce - the bloke with the heart condition is no longer here so I can go back to the salt/sugar ridden … [Read more...]

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What are you up to?

April 2, 2017 By Janine Leave a Comment

Picture of girl looking over paddock and tree.

“April is the cruelest month, breeding lilacs out of the dead land, mixing memory and desire, stirring dull roots with spring rain.” T S Eliot So we have begun my least favourite month of the year. It's full of sad milestones that we have to make our way through.  But somehow we get to the other side. It's easy to forget to manage your grief … [Read more...]

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I have a go at the Proust Questionnaire

April 20, 2016 By Janine 1 Comment

So there is this thing called the Proust Questionnaire. Apparently it's an old parlour game that is a questionnaire about your personality. It takes its name from the answers given by French writer Marcel Proust when he played the game back in 1890. In the modern day Vanity Fair regularly asks the Proust Questionnaire of the rich and famous … [Read more...]

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Entering the Bureaucracy of Adulthood

January 12, 2016 By Janine Leave a Comment

  My holidays are nearing an end and I haven't accomplished half of what I wanted to do. So in a desperate catch-up effort this week I'm trying to get at least the vitally important stuff completed. Yesterday I introduced Hippie Child to the great world of bureaucracy. We even went down the dark abyss that is Centrelink. We … [Read more...]

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Taking Stock – January 2016

January 9, 2016 By Janine 1 Comment

  At the start of a New Year I thought it was probably timely to do a Taking Stock post - the idea blatantly nicked from the lovely Pip at Meet Me At Mikes. I'm on holidays (22 December until 18 January) so I have had a deliciously long break to do all the things you don't get time to do when you are working. Of course the downside is … [Read more...]

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What I’d Miss (And What I Wouldn’t)

January 20, 2015 By Janine Leave a Comment

I'm reading The Most of Nora Ephron and for this post I am blatently stealing her idea of writing a list of what I'd miss if I was to die (read Nora's lists here). Now I'm not planning on checking out soon, I'm not even sick, despite my repeated visits to the doctor with what I consider to be life threatening ailments (it's stress Janine, your life … [Read more...]

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One Down One Up 12/09/2014

September 14, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Publishing Late oops. Sorry Chrystina. One Down It was a far better week this week. However, as is usual when you are living with a hailstorm of grief, the best of times can be the worst of times (sorry Dickens).  Hippie Child's team won their soccer grand final. It was thrilling and joyous. Yet now the happiest of times comes tinged with … [Read more...]

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July Achievements

August 1, 2014 By Janine 11 Comments

Negotiated my way through Centrelink without killing anyone. Managed to work six days in a fortnight and even came up with a few good story ideas (always a bonus if you are responsible for creating an interesting radio program). Accepted that it just gets harder. Started (and am enjoying) the Blog With Pip course. Applied for a few … [Read more...]

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

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Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

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Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

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Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

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Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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