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That Was Wednesday

September 11, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Yesterday I got a faint glimpse into what my world might look like when the children leave home. Princess Child is at a school camp. Hippie Child has exams which means early/late start/finish times. It was decided she would take the car to school and bring it home by lunchtime for me. Basically that meant I didn't have any responsibility for … [Read more...]

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One Up One Down

September 5, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

The absolutely lovely Chrystina Noel has created a link up called one down, one up where you share the worst and best part of your week. I'm joining in and you are welcome to as well, just head over to Chrystina's site to take part. One Down Long before death came knocking at our door I had shared this beautiful piece called Always Go The … [Read more...]

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Going Out On A School Night

August 28, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Last week I was given two free tickets to see Kate Miller Heidke. Of course when you have TWO children into music this becomes a choice of epic "pick the favourite" proportions. I decide the child doing music for the HSC and having singing lessons should be the one who got to go. However, when I asked her she sadly informed me she had an Ancient … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Homework

It’s Just A Game!

August 9, 2014 By Janine 6 Comments

Can someone explain to me why, when my daughter is perfectly legal to drive herself to the 8.40pm soccer game on a Friday night, I still insist on going? Gen X helicopter parenting at its finest right there. Of course if I hadn't gone I would have missed the spectacle of two teenage boys doing a streak across the field. Poor guys, they went to … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Soccer

Trying to Regain A Normal

July 5, 2014 By Janine 2 Comments

Grief is exhausting. It takes a lot of effort to mix with other human beings when you just want to crawl into bed and avoid the world. According to the counsellor and the doctor that is not a healthy approach. They are both suggesting, god forbid, exercise. Let's not forgot how that turned out last time I tried ... remember the treadmill … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Life

Happy Birthday

June 29, 2014 By Janine 1 Comment

Been clubbing. Well I did birthday lunch at the Golf Club for my Mum who turns 75 today (oops if I wasn't supposed to mention the age). Thank you Mum for everything. Especially the really difficult things you had to do with and for me recently. Hoping to replace the photo tomorrow when the photographer of the family finally gets around to … [Read more...]

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Tina Fey’s Brilliant Prayer For Her Daughter

June 12, 2014 By Janine 1 Comment

The very clever Tina Fey covers every wish a mother could have for daughters. Love it. “First, Lord: No tattoos. May neither Chinese symbol for truth nor Winnie-the-Pooh holding the FSU logo stain her tender haunches. May she be Beautiful but not Damaged, for it’s the Damage that draws the creepy soccer coach’s eye, not the Beauty. When … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Humour

Memory Snapshots

June 7, 2014 By Janine 7 Comments

I've been going through the old photos a lot this week. I'm finding it very therapeutic to see the happiness, the fun times, the laughter and the love captured in one single click of the camera button. When I used to teach photo scrapbooking it always amazed me the incredible stories I would hear when people started talking about the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Life

Still Here

June 1, 2014 By Janine 29 Comments

It's been two months and we are still trying to regain our equilibrium. The girls are dealing with exams, I'm dealing with superannuation companies. Neither is fun. To those of you with your paperwork neatly filed in an easy to reach place, I hate you. To anyone who can't lay your hands on your marriage certificate, your husband's birth … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Grief

A Sad Goodbye

April 15, 2014 By Janine 34 Comments

It's been a week of decisions trying to create a fitting memorial to good man who lived an ordinary life filled with work, family, love and laughter. In the end I think we got there. Our daughters are extraordinary young women who each created the most beautiful tributes. Simon's brother, Jon, and I spoke and so many people contributed in … [Read more...]

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Janine Fitzpatrick is a personal blogger with an untidy house, imperfect children and no celebrity friends.

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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