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Running Away To Daydream Island

September 25, 2014 By Janine 10 Comments

I did a spur of the moment elcheapo package deal to Daydream Island in the Whitsundays after a particularly bad few weeks. We needed to clear our heads. It turns out one of Simon's major roles in life was to try to curb my tendency to over pack for holidays. His strategy had a number of stages, first there was heavy sighing, then questioning … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Travel Tagged With: Daydream Island, Whitsunday Islands

One Down One Up – 19/9/14

September 23, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

It's becoming a habit to be late with these, but I have a good excuse I was on HOLIDAYS. ONE DOWN I bought a new swimsuit. It was horrific. I went up a size, and it's still a close call on whether it isn't too small. I thought grief-stricken people were supposed to LOSE WEIGHT not PUT IT ON! I would show you a photo but the picture is on … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family

Me Mate

September 16, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

  Me Mate  by Brett Goshorn It never sounded right to me The word mate I was used to friend, pal, or even buddy But now it sounds natural Now that me mate is gone I saw his picture the other day and it startled me There it was under a pile of my daughter’s books The Great Big Enormous Toshi Stephen Colbert’s I am a Pole and So Can … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grief

One Down One Up 12/09/2014

September 14, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Publishing Late oops. Sorry Chrystina. One Down It was a far better week this week. However, as is usual when you are living with a hailstorm of grief, the best of times can be the worst of times (sorry Dickens).  Hippie Child's team won their soccer grand final. It was thrilling and joyous. Yet now the happiest of times comes tinged with … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: one down one up

We Did It

September 13, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

  Dear Simon, I hope you are sitting down on some comfy white cloud. Guess what? WE WON. I know it won't surprise you. After all you told Hippie Child after watching the first few training sessions of the season that you thought they were going to go all the way this year. You reckoned they were a bloody good team. You were … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Soccer

That Was Wednesday

September 11, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Yesterday I got a faint glimpse into what my world might look like when the children leave home. Princess Child is at a school camp. Hippie Child has exams which means early/late start/finish times. It was decided she would take the car to school and bring it home by lunchtime for me. Basically that meant I didn't have any responsibility for … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family

The First Father’s Day

September 8, 2014 By Janine 10 Comments

I hope all the dads, granddads and stepdads out there had a great day yesterday. I hope you were surrounded by love and everyone laughed at your silly jokes just to make you feel good. It's kinda scary, there are some guys who read this blog, some who I even know in real life, every time I start on about menopause, my boob size or other "too … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grief

Then there was August

September 7, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Managed to work on the days I was called in for my casual job. Completed the fire training course for that casual job - apparently I'm now allowed onto fire grounds to report on bushfires! Took the girls to a Kate Miller Heidke concert. Stayed strong for my grieving friend. Sorted out a blog redesign (coming soon folks). Crawled through … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Grief

One Up One Down

September 5, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

The absolutely lovely Chrystina Noel has created a link up called one down, one up where you share the worst and best part of your week. I'm joining in and you are welcome to as well, just head over to Chrystina's site to take part. One Down Long before death came knocking at our door I had shared this beautiful piece called Always Go The … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Uncategorized

New Day

September 4, 2014 By Janine 8 Comments

Dear Simon You've gone too far this time. I know you got nervous when the Navy super came through. You think having some money in the bank is a dangerous thing for me. (By the way there's still no sign of the life insurance or super from that bloody big bank but I'm sure that doesn't surprise you. I have the same case manager as you had for the … [Read more...]

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Janine Fitzpatrick is a personal blogger with an untidy house, imperfect children and no celebrity friends.

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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