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Memory Snapshots

June 7, 2014 By Janine 7 Comments

I've been going through the old photos a lot this week. I'm finding it very therapeutic to see the happiness, the fun times, the laughter and the love captured in one single click of the camera button. When I used to teach photo scrapbooking it always amazed me the incredible stories I would hear when people started talking about the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family, Life

Grateful

June 6, 2014 By Janine Leave a Comment

Trying to be grateful. Going all Oprah with my gratitude post. Grateful for the wonderful friends in my life, wherever you are. Grateful my kids are old enough to remember their Dad. Grateful for having a home, as unfinished as it may be. Grateful for the neighbour who mowed my lawn yesterday (yes Janice the lawn is under … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life

How Much Do You Reveal Online?

June 5, 2014 By Janine 8 Comments

I had a post ready to go today but Hippie Child vetoed it, apparently too much "black humour". In light of my new circumstances I am wondering about how much you can reveal of yourself online before it becomes damaging in your real life. I attended a training session for a casual job with a media organisation recently, some comments I made … [Read more...]

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Friends – Old, New and Virtual – Part 3

June 4, 2014 By Janine 10 Comments

When you spend a bit of time in the online world it's easy to become disenchanted. Hate sites, trolls, nasty comments, even respectable commentators resorting to bullying techniques to try to make their points, it can all make your head spin. Then in real life a tragedy strikes. I knew the old friends to be there, I was sure the new friends … [Read more...]

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Friends – The Old, The New, The Virtual – Part 2

June 3, 2014 By Janine 6 Comments

Life's truest happiness is found in the friendships we make along the way. We haven't lived in Port Macquarie long by regional standards, only a mere seven years, we're not even locals yet. However it is clear the friendships we have made in that time are really special. The relationships were forged at the school pick-up, on the wintry … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: friendship, Grief

Friends – Old, New and Virtual – Part 1

June 2, 2014 By Janine 10 Comments

Good friends are like stars, you don't always see them but you know they are always there. During the past two months I have been held together by a stream of beautiful people, some are old friends, some are new and some are my virtual friends who I've never met. Within minutes of hearing the news my two oldest friends had booked plane … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: friendship, Grief

Still Here

June 1, 2014 By Janine 29 Comments

It's been two months and we are still trying to regain our equilibrium. The girls are dealing with exams, I'm dealing with superannuation companies. Neither is fun. To those of you with your paperwork neatly filed in an easy to reach place, I hate you. To anyone who can't lay your hands on your marriage certificate, your husband's birth … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Tagged With: Grief

A Sad Goodbye

April 15, 2014 By Janine 34 Comments

It's been a week of decisions trying to create a fitting memorial to good man who lived an ordinary life filled with work, family, love and laughter. In the end I think we got there. Our daughters are extraordinary young women who each created the most beautiful tributes. Simon's brother, Jon, and I spoke and so many people contributed in … [Read more...]

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Then the World Changed

April 11, 2014 By Janine 42 Comments

Last Sunday our family changed forever. My husband Simon tragically died in a rock fishing accident. We are in the midst of planning a funeral which seems so wrong when he was just 46 years old. As we struggle to come to terms with our situation I want to say a huge thank you to our family and friends who have been an amazing support. I … [Read more...]

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The Middle

March 17, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Nicole Kidman is middle-aged. Yep, I’ve said it. The woman is getting on. It comes as a shock doesn’t it? I know this because Nicole and I are the same age. At 46 we are at life’s midpoint. That’s providing we make it to 92, if we cark it earlier then we could right now be beyond the middle. Funnily enough Nicole Kidman’s middle-age looks … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Humour, Life

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Janine Fitzpatrick is a personal blogger with an untidy house, imperfect children and no celebrity friends.

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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