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Putting On A Happy Face

July 21, 2014 By Janine 6 Comments

Dear Simon I'm suffering from performance anxiety. I've been feeling the pressure to write something FUNNY ever since I published Then The Dance Was Over about our wedding anniversary and made all my readers cry. By the way, thanks for remembering our anniversary by destroying the dishwasher. I think you are starting to run out of electrical … [Read more...]

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So There’s A Right Way To Do This?

July 17, 2014 By Janine 7 Comments

I managed to catch a bit of Offspring last night. I know it's a national crime but I've never watched the show. It appears Nina, who lost her husband at the end of the last season, is more advanced in her grieving process than I am. I tuned in just as she was having mad, passionate sex with some tall, dark handsome guy on her kitchen table. My … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Grief, Offspring

Then The Dance Was Over

July 13, 2014 By Janine 31 Comments

We spent some twenty-six years with our lives entwined. We were friends, a couple, formally husband and wife, then (god help us) parents. Twenty to Forty-Six it's a big chunk of time spent in each others company. We were always a mismatched pair, big picture girl, detail orientated bloke. I liked things to happen, you hated change. I live in … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Family Living Tagged With: Grief

Trying to Regain A Normal

July 5, 2014 By Janine 2 Comments

Grief is exhausting. It takes a lot of effort to mix with other human beings when you just want to crawl into bed and avoid the world. According to the counsellor and the doctor that is not a healthy approach. They are both suggesting, god forbid, exercise. Let's not forgot how that turned out last time I tried ... remember the treadmill … [Read more...]

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Reading This Week – The Fault In Our Stars – John Green

July 3, 2014 By Janine 3 Comments

Despite our current circumstances, Princess Child and I have both just read The Fault in Our Stars, 'cause it's important to ALWAYS keep up with popular culture. This Young Adult Fiction novel tells a humourous, heartbreaking story of first love.  The emotions intensified by the omnipresent fear of death as the two protagonists live with … [Read more...]

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Living With Teens – The Rules

July 2, 2014 By Janine 9 Comments

Once the teenager obtains her licence you will be required to submit booking requests to drive your OWN CAR. Having a licence for six days makes her an expert and enables her to give YOU DRIVING ADVICE. Dragging teenagers out of the bedrooms they have inhabited for days on end into the sunlight of an outdoor experience is a CRIMMINAL … [Read more...]

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June Achievements

July 1, 2014 By Janine 4 Comments

Learned how to make a fire. Managed to do a few days at ABC radio and produced some good shows. Blogged every day. Garage sorted. Used a chainsaw and didn't lose a limb. Paperwork all submitted for life insurance and superannuation. Got out of bed almost every day. You've got to celebrate the small wins. What did you achieve last … [Read more...]

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30 Days Done and Dusted

June 30, 2014 By Janine 8 Comments

Yippee. Doing a happy dance. I've posted every day for thirty days. Clearly not some of best work (although there were moments where there a sign of the old me in there), and I seem to have developed an obsession with all things death related (sorry, but I don't think I'm done with that topic yet). I've realised writing at night (which started … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Grief

Happy Birthday

June 29, 2014 By Janine 1 Comment

Been clubbing. Well I did birthday lunch at the Golf Club for my Mum who turns 75 today (oops if I wasn't supposed to mention the age). Thank you Mum for everything. Especially the really difficult things you had to do with and for me recently. Hoping to replace the photo tomorrow when the photographer of the family finally gets around to … [Read more...]

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Thank You To A Stranger

June 28, 2014 By Janine 1 Comment

Tacking Point Lighthouse

On the day Simon died somebody had seen him fishing and a little while later noticed his gear was still on the rocks but he wasn't. That was the person who called in the rescue guys. There is no doubt in my mind that the reason his body was recovered was because of that person's vigilance and action. At the time the girls and I met with the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Grief

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Janine Fitzpatrick is a personal blogger with an untidy house, imperfect children and no celebrity friends.

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WATCHINGI went to see Fiona O'Loughlin last night. She's the comedian who survived alcoholism, a two week coma from not realising, in her drunken state, that the heater in the dive she was living in was leaking carbon monoxide.  Then went on to spend … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

Watching We headed to the movies this weekend and saw the latest Spike Lee film, BlacKkKlansman. It's the story of the first black cop in the Colorado Springs police force, Ron Stallworth, who in the late 70's managed to infiltrate the Ku Klux … [Read More...]

Sleepless

So I've been awake since 3.00am. In that time I've signed the family up for an organizing app which can run a joint calendar, shared shopping and to-do lists and has downloaded a series of recipes that are supposed to make my "what's for dinner" … [Read More...]

Grey stairs.

The Widow Goes On A Date

The last time I went on a first date Bob Hawke was Prime Minister, Liam Hemsworth was being born, Madonna was singing Vogue on the radio, Macaulay Culkin was being left Home Alone and Kevin Costner was Dancing with Wolves. It was a long time ago … [Read More...]

Father with two daughters.

Another Father’s Day

Hi Simon, How's things going up there? Did you have a beer with your Dad for Father's Dad? We blatantly ignored the day here. Just pretended it wasn't happening. We still think about you every day. I didn't post anything on Facebook because it … [Read More...]

Daisy flowers

Hellooo Again

  Hi, I'm just here unwrapping the dust covers, brushing down the spiderwebs and sweeping up the left-over dreams of my tiny little space on the internet. I know I've been gone almost 12-months. I'm not even sure how that happened. A … [Read More...]

A messy scrapbooking desk

Milestone Moments

Hey Simon, Despite my best intentions to ignore the milestones they keep on happening, with or without you. We celebrated your Mum's 80th birthday back in August. A rushed trip of some 1,850 kilometres all up with just four days to do the 9 hour … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

What have you been up to this weekend? Watching  We caught Home Again in the cinema. It's the latest Reese Witherspoon film.  It's a fun little comedy. Reese plays Alice a just-turned 40 divorcing mum of two. At her birthday drinks she … [Read More...]

Picture of a beach.

Weekend Notes

  As the weekend draws to a close here's a little of what caught my eye in the last 48 hours. Watching Saw Battle of the Sexes the new Emma Stone movie about the 1973 tennis match between Billie Jean King and Bobby Riggs. Oh what a time … [Read More...]

A Bag of chips, wine, chocolate, lemonade and magazine. A parody of a bug out bag for the apocalypse.

Could You Survive The Apocalypse?

South Koreans are buying "survival bags" and turning to YouTube for tips on making it through a nuclear blast. The New York Times is writing articles on How To Survive The Apocalypse and the doomsday preppers are starting to look like the smart ones. … [Read More...]

chocolate and wine

Home Alone: The Empty Nest

The empty nest looms in my near future. One more year before the youngest heads out into the world without my micromanaging her every move. I can feel the rotor blades on my helicopter starting to slow.   I heard a whisper of what may … [Read More...]

Weekend Notes

It's a long weekend here in Australia.  So it's been a lazy time. Perfect for some catch-up TV, movies and reading.   Watching I've been enjoying Doctor Doctor it was shot in my old hometown of Mudgee and gosh it's looking … [Read More...]

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Grey stairs.
Father with two daughters.

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