Comments on: Opting Out – A Realistic Option? https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/ Thu, 11 Sep 2014 00:14:28 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: That Was Wednesday - Shambolic Living https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-28729 Thu, 11 Sep 2014 00:14:28 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-28729 […] Opting Out A Realistic Option? […]

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10446 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 21:28:38 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10446 In reply to Chrystina.

Many women are taking the opportunity to start their own businesses when they find themselves at home with the kids. It’s probably a reaction to the inflexibility of traditional workplaces that women are attempting to create their own jobs with the inbuilt flexibility they need.

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By: Chrystina https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10440 Mon, 02 Sep 2013 13:25:02 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10440 I once opted out of being in an a cappella group. Which was probably one of the best decisions that I’ve ever made. I haven’t opted out of working just yet – as a single girl with rent it doesn’t quite seem like an option just yet. Although I really like the sound of it, maybe I would be able to start my greeting card shop then.

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10372 Wed, 28 Aug 2013 01:06:54 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10372 In reply to Allison Tait.

Thanks Allison, particularly for all the wonderful information about writing you share on your blog and the Pink Fibro Club Facebook page – I am very much looking forward to the chat with a literary agent tomorrow night!

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By: Allison Tait https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10371 Wed, 28 Aug 2013 01:02:17 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10371 Great post Janine! And good luck with the book!

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10360 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 10:41:24 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10360 In reply to Jo Tracey.

I think they still need you so much as teenagers – it can be a bit frustrating! Good luck with following your dream too.

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10359 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 10:40:12 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10359 In reply to JodiGibson (@JFGibsonWriter).

Thanks Jodi, yes choice is very important.

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10358 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 10:39:34 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10358 In reply to Olivia.

Good luck with your Etsy store. Being home does help you unearth your entrepreneurial spirit.

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10357 Tue, 27 Aug 2013 10:33:05 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10357 In reply to Lauren.

Yes, I was quite frankly shocked to discover myself in the traditional gender role – it was totally not expected! Keep your fingers crossed that I can get to the end of this journey with a book written and my insanity intact. No ditch that, willing to lose my sanity if I can just get a book finished!

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By: Lauren https://shambolicliving.com/2013/08/23/opting-out-a-realistic-option/#comment-10295 Sun, 25 Aug 2013 11:42:10 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=6237#comment-10295 Really, really great and thought-provoking post, my dear. I’ve been reading those Opt Out articles with some interest and looking at my own life’s choices through the prism of those women and my own particular brand of feminism. I been an at-home mom a working mom and now a work at home mom, and the truth is that our family works best when some measure of my time is focused on domestic/family pursuits. Tending to those things (and things like making sure I could be there at school pick-ups and concerts) has always been of tantamount importance to me. And oddly, I find myself in a more traditional gender role than I expected. I guess to me that’s more curious than anything else!

I’m so excited about the current journey you’re on, terrifying though it may be. I’m working at getting braver. I just found an article about a guy who’s really opting out, as in leaving the news and social media for a year…now there’s a whole different take!

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