Comments on: Girl Power https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/ Thu, 11 Sep 2014 00:14:58 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 By: That Was Wednesday - Shambolic Living https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-28731 Thu, 11 Sep 2014 00:14:58 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-28731 […] Girl Power. […]

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8449 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 04:41:06 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8449 In reply to Chrystina.

I love the thought you put into your responses. Yes I think it is a different dynamic when it is an all female panel. My daughters go to a co-ed school but my youngest has just been moved up to the top maths group and they have divided the class so there is an all boy class and an all girl class, I think in a bid to encourage girls to like maths, and hopefully have them a bit more keen to participate when it’s not in front of boys. The male/female dynamics in the workplace are always interesting. I’ve worked in offices dominated by very opinionated women and sometimes that wasn’t healthy! Neither was my experience in male dominated offices brimming with sexism! Somehow there has to be a nice mix, and you are right personality comes into it too!

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By: Chrystina https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8442 Thu, 18 Apr 2013 02:04:48 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8442 The salad just arrived at my table for dinner but I decided to push it away because I want to answer these questions (first). I think we do need all-female panels – there’s a different dynamic in an all female group, for better for worse. I went to an all girls high school – with some of the smartest girls that I have ever (and probably will ever) meet in my entire life – and it brings something to the table. I think women who are shy also find it easier to talk in front of an all women panel, ESPECIALLY in the work place because all of the women who have made it to management positions have been there and know what females are dealing with to get noticed and make it to the top. Does this mean the same thing for prime-time TV? I’m not sure. I think adding men would be an interesting component, but it brings out something different in females – some of them might get defensive, some of them get louder because they feel like they need to compete, and some of them feel shy. I mean, clearly this isn’t all women – but I definitely see the dynamic changing. I think men would have something interesting to say on the matter though, that’s for sure. I don’t think all women’s voices get lost if you add men’s to the mix, but I do think that there are certain perspectives that would be lost. There are certain women that men listen to more easily – usually ones who have already proved themselves, but if it’s somebody who’s starting from the bottom, sometimes it’s difficult to get somebody’s attention. As for women shooting down other women – I think that’s a personality thing. Also, if the woman doing the shooting down is in the spotlight, I think she is more likely to shoot the other person down – sad, but true. What an interesting topic. Thanks for sharing, Janine.

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By: Not always germane! | Life after work https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8377 Sat, 13 Apr 2013 14:11:11 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8377 […] Girl Power (shambolicliving.com) […]

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8311 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 20:28:36 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8311 In reply to Shelly.

So true.

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By: Shelly https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8306 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 12:04:09 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8306 In reply to Janine.

I think what it comes down to is that an hour is just not enough time to talk about all the things that need discussing!

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8305 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 11:30:50 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8305 In reply to Shelly.

Thanks Shelly, it’s always nice to know you aren’t alone in what you are thinking. I think it is important that there are advocates for sex workers and Magnanti obviously has a unique perspective on the issue – but perhaps because it’s not an area relevant to my life it just seemed to take up a lot of the conversation- when I was perhaps hoping for a more rounded discussion???

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By: Shelly https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8304 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 11:19:29 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8304 You have so clearly articulated exactly what I was thinking about the program. I was more inspired by Imam Muhamed Abdullah in the week before than I was by this panel.

I really wanted to hear what Deborah Cheetham had to say, but the show was dominated by Magnanti’s talk about sex work. Also, I thought it was in poor taste, whatever one feels about Margaret Thatcher, to make a comment about drinking champagne at the news of her death.

Thanks for writing this post. I was hoping someone would write it, but I never thought it would match what I was thinking so perfectly.

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By: Janine https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8303 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 10:49:35 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8303 In reply to Sarah – that space in between.

I know, so funny I posted mine and went on to Facebook to see your post pop up! That is such a great point that we have to show young girls the power of speaking up. I was really looking forward to the program but just felt a bit deflated afterwards, that there really wasn’t the opportunity for the panel to get stuck into the serious issues.

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By: Sarah - that space in between https://shambolicliving.com/2013/04/09/girl-power/#comment-8302 Tue, 09 Apr 2013 10:42:47 +0000 http://shambolicliving.com/?p=5432#comment-8302 oh synchronicity Janine! The best part about the school girl was the ‘awkkkkward’ response she made after they shot her down. If we dont show young women the skills in offering thoughts – even those that arent full formed yet – then we run the risk of not showing them the power of speaking up and of telling our own stories. I often get frustrated at qanda but last night held so much promise, which is probably why it was such a let down x

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